Funeral and Memorial Flowers Guide

Neighbors Colleagues Extended family

Friends and Neighbors 

Business associates

Clubs and organizations

 Flowers and arrangements include:

 

Roses – A timeless symbol of love, respect, and remembrance. 

Hydrangeas – Represent heartfelt emotions, gratitude, and understanding.

Seasonal Mixed Arrangements – Designed with fresh, seasonal blooms to create a warm and comforting tribute.

 

Color Choices:

 

White  – White is traditionally represented in many cultures as a symbol of sympathy and compassion. 

A favorite color  – If you know that the deceased had a favorite color or flower choose an arrangement that reflects that. 

Seasonal Mixed Arrangements – Designed with fresh, seasonal blooms to create a warm and comforting tribute, reflect your choice in your messaging by expressing "We hope these flowers bring you light at your time of loss". 

 

Funeral Sprays and Wreaths 

Traditional standing sprays are often displayed on easels during the funeral or memorial service. These are often sent by family members. These arrangements a can be impressive statement pieces, however some consideration should be given as to what will happen to the flowers after the service, rather than a large statement piece at the service it maybe more appropriate to send the family an arrangement for the service and then follow up with a monthly subscription for a couple of months after the service to let them know you are still in their thoughts.

 

Casket Sprays

Casket sprays are large floral arrangements placed on top of the casket. These are traditionally chosen by the immediate family and are generally not ordered by friends or acquaintance. 

When Should You Send Funeral Flowers?

Timing is important, but don't worry if you can't send flowers immediately.

Before the Funeral

If possible, arrange for flowers to arrive at the funeral home before the service begins. This allows them to be displayed during the visitation or ceremony.

For a Memorial Service

Flowers can also be delivered to churches, memorial venues, or celebration of life services before guests arrive.

After the Funeral

It's perfectly appropriate to send sympathy flowers to the family's home in the days or weeks after the funeral. Many families appreciate knowing they are still being thought of after the services have ended.

What Flowers Should You Avoid?

While there are no strict rules, it's wise to consider cultural or religious traditions.

Some families may request:

Donations to a charity instead of flowers or no flowers at all

Specific colors or styles.

Always check the obituary or funeral notice for any special requests.

Writing a Meaningful Sympathy Card

Your message doesn't need to be long. The most sincere words are often the simplest.

Examples include:

 

"Thinking of you during this difficult time and sending our deepest sympathy."

 

"May loving memories bring you comfort and peace."

 

 "With heartfelt condolences to you and your family."

 

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you."

 

"Wishing you strength and comfort in the days ahead."

 

If you knew the person well, sharing a brief memory can make your message especially meaningful.

Funeral Flower Etiquette

Following a few simple guidelines helps ensure your gesture is both thoughtful and appropriate.

Respect the family's wishes if they request donations in lieu of flowers.

 

Send flowers early enough to arrive before the service whenever possible.

 

Immediate family typically chooses the casket spray and florals to decorate the location.

Larger arrangements are usually sent to the funeral service, while bouquets are often sent to the family's home. Include your name so the family knows who sent the flowers. If you're unsure what to choose, ask your florist for guidance.

Flowers for Different Relationships

For Immediate Family

Choose pieces that will be used as part of the service either to dress an altar, memory table. This could include a Casket Spray or Urn Riser and or larger pedestal style arrangements. 

 

For Friends

A sympathy bouquet is a thoughtful choice.

 

For Coworkers

A larger arrangement sent to the service from the office is often appreciated.